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| Aaliyah-Haughton |
The dating pool in your area sucks. You know it. You've always known it. The only guys who are single are the creepers, the cheaters, the sleazebags. The only women who are single are clingy, jealous, slutty. Those who aren't physically or emotionally compromised, don't have time for a relationship.
You are this close to moving...
Blame the media
It fills people's heads with what is beautiful, what is not, what is worthy, what is not. Sure, it's easy to find someone when you look like Angelina Jolie or Scarlett Johansson. It's easy to get laid when you look like Adam Levine or Zac Efron. Too easy.
However, you're not a damn movie star. Sorry! You clean up real nice, you turn heads when you do, but you're not a god. Not yet... which is why you're still single. Stupid movies, tv shows, magazines, internet, porn, music, EYES!
Blame your parents
For not making you gorgeous. They had the power! It was up to them to find a suitable attractive mate to give their offspring the best chance, but no, they had to be in love.
Jerks.
Blame God
Quietly. Carefully. Seriously.
Blame your exes
They set you up for failure. With them and everyone who came after. They mistreated you, they didn't value you, they didn't give you what you needed. There's a reason you are no longer together with any of them, but there's a reason why you got with them in the first place. It's a quality that keeps roping you in. The bastards keep dragging you back in, make you fall hard and then show their true colors.
After each time, you just can't trust anyone the same way again. You're damaged goods thanks to them and no one wants to deal with that kind of baggage.
This blame game can go on forever. Scream, cry, kick, punch, throw a tantrum, throw a chair, throw out your back (you should start working out). Do what it takes to make yourself feel better because it's truth time.
In the famous words of Sarah Connor, "there's no fate but what we make". So stop blaming everything and everyone else for your misfortune and do something about it.
Make yourself look good. Look great. Venture away from the same circles (aka social ruts). Get out there more often. Become the best version of yourself. Forget all the negativity. Leave the past behind. Stop wallowing in self-pity.
Make yourself someone everyone wants to date and they will.
