Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Monday, January 7, 2013

hey poke proactively out of bikini tops, peek over lacy push-up bras, and flaunt their fabulousness naked in bed, turning any male into a panting pile of mush. The bosom plays a vital role in pleasing both partners. Know the right moves, though, and you'll have her melting in your arms. These tips will help you double your pleasure, no matter what her size or type.

Sex and relationships, Making a clean breast of it
Large
Researchers have found that large breasts are about 24 percent less sensitive than small ones. So, arouse the outer sides of her breasts with your tongue; even your fingers can do wonders. Use your tongue to make flipping motions and experiment with light nibbling.
Small
Small breasts are very sensitive, but it's an advantage as they can handle more motion. Men can use their palms to cup and gently bounce the breasts during play.
Droopy
They are the last ones in queue, being the least sensitive. This is because the nerves are stretched and they are compressed by the breasts' weight. To relieve tension on the nerves and help her focus on the pleasure, have her lie on her back, which will cause her breasts to shift up and out.
Surgically enhanced
One should take care of a few points and do it carefully, to insure implants don't interfere with sensation. They will move differently. One should concentrate on the surface of the breasts. Use your tongue to make circles that gradually spiral in toward the nipples to give her the required pleasure.
New-mom breasts
Due to pregnancy, the nipples become tender, so men should focus on the breasts' undersides, which are usually neglected. Gently cup and support her breasts. This will make her feel nice after a long day of suckling.
Nipples
The nipples are important, in fact, in some women, you can induce an orgasm just by doing breast duty. But the sensitivity of nipples varies widely, so one should remember to handle them with care. They're also thermometers, popping up when the weather's cold, like giant goose bumps. So don't feel too effective without having worked on them yourself.
What they never told you about the boob trap
1. Talk to her about her assets -- the soft skin, how kissable they are and everything else that feels nice about them.
2. Women prefer to begin with a caress, so start with kissing and cuddling them.
3. Sucking the breast can be great, but again, remember not to keep sucking in a constant, steady motion, keep switching your moves!
4. Just remember to keep returning to the breast -- it'll make it more interesting for her.
5. Even if you like it rough, don't gnaw off the nipple. A little teeth does the trick.
6. Don't forget to play with other parts of the body; else she'll see it as all lust.
7. If the idea turns you on, encourage her to try breast sex with you.
8. If the nipples aren't hard, then what you're doing isn't working

Friday, November 23, 2012


If you and your partner cuddle up in "spoons" position all night or have your backs facing each other in bed, then these might just be more than mere sleeping position

According to life doctor Pam Spurr, the body language in bed could be a telling indicator of your emotional status in a relationship.
The Sun explained some of the main sleep positions and their meaning.

Sex and relationships, Couples, sleep positions
The Spoons (him behind)
You both lie on your sides, him facing your back.
The meaning: He's protective of you and quite traditional. He can get sensual reaching around and caressing every part of you. Beware if you never kiss/cuddle in this sleep position as it may become too platonic.
The Spoons (her behind)
You both lie on your sides, you facing his back.
The meaning: You are very nurturing and the backbone of the relationship. He is not afraid of letting go of responsibilities and you being his emotional anchor. Fab as long as your needs aren't neglected.
Poles Apart
Your backs face each other, with a wide gap between them.
The meaning: The intimacy is breaking down and you may be too independent of each other. If being independent suits you both then that's okay, as long as you say a warm goodnight. But be careful you aren't using this position to shut each other out.
Pushed Out
One sprawls in a starfish shape, the other faces away, clinging to the edge of the bed.
The meaning: The sprawler dominates your relationship and they might be selfish and unaware of their partner's needs. If you are the one pushed out, ensure you start asserting yourself during the day.
Need You
One lies on their back, the other is cradled in the crook of their arm cuddled up to them.
The meaning: The partner on their back provides emotional strength and is happy offering emotional support to the other partner who is more needy.
Mixed Messages
One lies tucked up in the foetal position, facing the other who is flat on his/her back.
The meaning: The one in the foetal position needs comfort but feels unable to express their needs to their partner, who is oblivious to their needs. Identify what is going wrong and start talking about it.
Submissive
One lies on their stomach, their fingertips reaching out to their partner who lies on their back or side.
The meaning: The partner reaching out is submissive in the relationship - the power lies with the other partner.
Pure Lust
Very cuddled up, with your legs entwined and the erogenous zones snuggled into each other.
The meaning: There is loads of passion and sensuality, and you are probably in the honeymoon phase.

Saturday, November 17, 2012

Kissing leads to sex before marriage, warns ex-prostitute

A former prostitute-turned-preacher has warned young Christians against kissing or cuddling before marriage, saying that it may lead

Evangelist Sy Rogers, who confessed being a transsexual and gay before, says that "kisses and cuddles" and the "good old pash" are foreplay people should abstain from if they are not married.

Sex and relationships, kissing, pre-marital-sex
According to The Adelaide Advertiser, Rogers, who believes homosexuality can be "cured" with prayer, is due to give a talk at a conference at Enfield Baptist Church in Adelaide next month, reports the Herald Sun.

In a preview released recently, he asked: "So when is it time to stir up sexual desire? When you can afford to: in marriage. Control sexual desire; don''t let it control you."

However, sexual health experts warned against such extreme form of chastity, saying that it may leave young people "more vulnerable to sexual exploitation."

SHine SA (Sexual Health information networking & education) teacher education co-ordinator Jane Flentje said: "(Abstinence) may mean kids delay having sex a bit longer, but on the whole they don''t wait until they''re married," she said. "When they do start having sex they're not using contraceptives and condoms as often, and they''re not as comfortable talking to people about it.

"If kids don''t get any opportunity to learn about this stuff and explore relationships, they''re much more vulnerable to sexual exploitation."
'Undesirable' gay men likely to engage in risky sexual behaviour The new research led by University of Toronto scientists over a dozen of gay men has found that feeling undesirable may lead to psychological and health problems.

Sex and relationships, Gay men

"I found that young, white, middle-class men are considered much more sexually desirable than men who are racial minorities, over 40 and poor," said Adam Isaiah Green, Assistant Professor of Sociology at U of T.

"I also learned that for gay men, being considered sexually undesirable can have serious health consequences ranging from psychological issues to risky sexual behaviour," he added.

The study showed that undesirable gay men face stigmatization, avoidance and outright rejection, which can lead to depression, anxiety and alcohol abuse.

Due to which, they tend to forego safe-sex discussion and, in some cases, condom use, in the context of sex with a more attractive partner.

"We tend to devalue sexual life as something that is extracurricular and frivolous, but this research shows a significant link between sexual desirability and health," said Green.

"Men with low levels of 'erotic capital' are systematically marginalized, which can take a real toll both physically and psychologically," he added.

The study is published in the current edition of the Journal of Health and Social Behaviour.

Revealed: Tips for women to boost sex life
Dr Bella Ellwood-Clayton, a sexual anthropologist and author of Sex Drive: In Pursuit of Female Desire, has revealed some tips to increase female libido, Stuff.co.nz reported.

Sex and relationships, Revealed: Tips for women to boost sex life
Dr Ellwood-Clayton’s top advice is to read erotic literature like Fifty Shades trilogy or the ones by Anais Nin, Erica Jong and Kate Holden.
Sleeping naked can also help boost your sex life, she said.
Hire someone to do the cleaning, as doing laundry is not an aphrodisiac. And the less cleaning a woman does, the sexier she feels, she noted citing Betty Friedan’s quote: “No woman gets an orgasm from shining the kitchen floor.”
She suggests women to shut down their laptops and TVs, adding that there’s a greater chance of intimacy if they retire early and are already in bed.
Women are also asked to try sexting. It suggests women to send their partner outrageously dirty texts.
Exercise and nutritious diet may help build a healthy body and support a healthy libido, she said.
Next she cited a 2009 study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, which found that drinking one or two glasses of red wine each day increases female desire.
In addition watching erotic-themed films like The Last Seduction, Betty Blue, Secretary, Sex and Lucia may provide sexual satisfaction.
Or women can try using sex toys, according to Dr Ellwood-Clayton.
If all else fails, get drunk, turn off the lights and grope on the couch, she suggested.

Saturday, October 6, 2012

Who's Sabotaging Your Love Life? 
t is not humanly possible to have this much bad luck when it comes to dating. THIS MUCH BAD LUCK IS JUST RIDICULOUS!!!
Aaliyah-Haughton
Blame your location
The dating pool in your area sucks. You know it. You've always known it. The only guys who are single are the creepers, the cheaters, the sleazebags. The only women who are single are clingy, jealous, slutty. Those who aren't physically or emotionally compromised, don't have time for a relationship.
You are this close to moving...
Blame the media
It fills people's heads with what is beautiful, what is not, what is worthy, what is not. Sure, it's easy to find someone when you look like Angelina Jolie or Scarlett Johansson. It's easy to get laid when you look like Adam Levine or Zac Efron. Too easy.
However, you're not a damn movie star. Sorry! You clean up real nice, you turn heads when you do, but you're not a god. Not yet... which is why you're still single. Stupid movies, tv shows, magazines, internet, porn, music, EYES!
Blame your parents
For not making you gorgeous. They had the power! It was up to them to find a suitable attractive mate to give their offspring the best chance, but no, they had to be in love.
Jerks.
Blame God
Quietly. Carefully. Seriously.
Blame your exes
They set you up for failure. With them and everyone who came after. They mistreated you, they didn't value you, they didn't give you what you needed. There's a reason you are no longer together with any of them, but there's a reason why you got with them in the first place. It's a quality that keeps roping you in. The bastards keep dragging you back in, make you fall hard and then show their true colors.
After each time, you just can't trust anyone the same way again. You're damaged goods thanks to them and no one wants to deal with that kind of baggage.
This blame game can go on forever. Scream, cry, kick, punch, throw a tantrum, throw a chair, throw out your back (you should start working out). Do what it takes to make yourself feel better because it's truth time.
In the famous words of Sarah Connor, "there's no fate but what we make". So stop blaming everything and everyone else for your misfortune and do something about it.
Make yourself look good. Look great. Venture away from the same circles (aka social ruts). Get out there more often. Become the best version of yourself. Forget all the negativity. Leave the past behind. Stop wallowing in self-pity.
Make yourself someone everyone wants to date and they will.